Maternity leave and work of professional genealogist. How does it work together? Well, it works. Usually. This is going to be personal post. So you know me a bit better and you can imagine who is in the background of this blog. I have decided to write it after several weeks when I was overloaded with work and everything and got few questions when (and if) there is going to be a new post...
I have two small children (16 and 28 months old), live in the countryside, taking care for a house, garden and some animals (dogs, cats, ducks and sheeps), working as a professional genealogist, going to have third child in July. My husband is working as an IT guy and he works a lot from home which is a huge advantage. Well. That says a lot, isn't it?
How a typical day looks like in our family?
We are waken up by children somewhere between 5:30 and 7:00 AM. It mainly depends on weather - if it is sunny, they are up earlier, if it is cloudy, rainy, they are up later. I think many of you know it. Then the morning run starts - feed the children, animals, ourselves, drive the older one into kindergarden which is in town about 7 miles away, do the shopping.
The work itself starts after return from the town. I usually have about 1.5 hour for work when the younger one is able to play by herself (thanks God for such children!). I focus on projects which are to be finished earliest (well, I have to admit I do my best under stress ;o)) - search the parish books which are available online, process those records I have brought from archives, transcribe and translate found records, write the family history. The amount of work done depends on too many things, I usually do three or four things together.
I'm usually able to process about 15 records during that 1.5 hour period, write two or three pages of the family history, find up to ten new records and so on and so on. I try to do as much as possible because every minute is too valuable.
Next hour is dedicated to the younger one - food, play, garden (together with care for animals) and then preparation for a good noon sleep. She usually sleep two to three hours. These hours are mostly spent "at work" - answering e-mails, finding more records, answering e-mails, sending tasks to my colleagues, discussion about latest finds, answering e-mails, processing of the records, answering e-mails.
Afternoon is always the same - younger one wakes up, she gets food, we pick up the older one in the kindergarden, return home and spent hour or two in the garden (care for animals is automatic). I gave up trying to get to work in the late afternoon, I just wait until the children go to bed, because it's almost impossible to concentrate on anything when both are at home.
They go to bed between 7:00 and 8:00 PM and then there is again time for work, usually till 11:00 PM. I try to process the records and find some more but I recently found out that I'm doing mistakes in the evening. So I read books related to history, check new articles online, find resources for the family histories and so on.
Not too much time spent "at work" - but I have to handle it somehow and I try to do my best. You see that there is not too much space for something more. I can do quite many things during the late afternoon except work - that's time when I usually write blog posts (as this one is). And that's the reason why there are so huge gaps between some of the posts - when I'm too tired from work, when I have to finish too many project in short time, when I have to do too many things, I just have to put something aside.
Thanks for understanding in such cases - and don't be afraid, I'll continue with the usual blog posts!
It's understandable that your blogging doesn't always get done. You're a very busy lady!ReplyDelete
Your topic is really informative.Thanks for your sharing.ReplyDelete
You are doing a great job!!!!! And you have a wonderful family!!!!!!ReplyDelete
Thanks for your work!!!!!!
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You are an amazing woman. Thank you for all you do...really love your site and learning a great deal. Aloha from the Big Island of Hawaii, USA! SallieReplyDelete
I was so happy to stumble across this blog! Thanks for starting it. Your kids are so cute! (And I can definitely identify with having a shortage of time when the kids are young, especially living in the country, where there are not only inside chores but also outside ones.)ReplyDelete
My mother's family was from Slovakia, not the Czech Republic, but I hope to pick up some hints here as the history overlaps of course.
Our kids are a bit older but we have the same sort of schedule in our family - I'm an IT guy but have an hour commute, so my wife gets even more of the work and I'm amazed at how much she can do in a day.ReplyDelete
I just wanted to say thanks for all of your posts - I think we're all willing to wait for more, and your previous ones have been a great help.
Thank you for all the work that you do for your blog. Your advice and information that you provide is invaluable.ReplyDelete
I cannot tell you how wonderful your blog has been in helping me locate and understand my Czech ancestry and its customs. What a blessing you have been to me! Please continue with your great gift to all who read your blogs!ReplyDelete